The cost of home care for an elderly loved one can feel overwhelming, but several programs exist to help cover these expenses. Government benefits, insurance options, and local resources can all reduce what you pay out of pocket. Start by contacting your local Area Agency on Aging to find programs specific to your state and situation.
What Government Programs Help Pay for Home Care?
Several federal and state programs provide financial help for home care. The key is knowing which ones apply to your family member’s age, income, and health status.
Medicaid is the largest payer of long-term care in the United States. It covers home care services through Home and Community Based Services (HCBS) waivers. These waivers allow people who qualify for nursing home care to receive care at home instead. Each state runs its own waiver program, so eligibility and services vary. Income and asset limits apply, and many states have waiting lists.
The Older Americans Act funds services like meal delivery, transportation, and personal care through local Area Agencies on Aging. These services are not free for everyone, but they charge based on what you can afford. There is no income test for some services.
Veterans Administration benefits help qualifying veterans and surviving spouses pay for home care. The Aid and Attendance benefit adds money to a veteran’s pension if they need help with daily activities. The Housebound benefit is for veterans who are mostly confined to their home.
Start with your state’s Medicaid office and your local Area Agency on Aging. Both can tell you what programs you may qualify for and how to apply.
Does Medicare Cover Home Care Costs?
Medicare covers some home care, but not all of it. Many people assume Medicare will pay for long-term help at home. That is usually not the case.
Medicare Part A and Part B cover skilled home health care. This includes part-time skilled nursing care, physical therapy, occupational therapy, and speech-language pathology services. To qualify, a doctor must certify that you are homebound and need skilled care. Medicare covers this care only on a part-time or intermittent basis. It does not cover 24-hour care or full-time help.
Medicare does not cover custodial care. Custodial care is help with daily activities like bathing, dressing, eating, and using the toilet. If a person only needs help with these tasks and no skilled nursing or therapy, Medicare will not pay.
Medicare also does not cover personal care aides or homemaker services unless they are provided alongside skilled care. Even then, the coverage is limited.
Some people choose a Medicare Advantage plan instead of traditional Medicare. Medicare Advantage plans must cover the same home health services as Original Medicare. Some plans offer extra benefits like adult day care or home meal delivery. Check each plan’s coverage details carefully.
The bottom line: Medicare helps with medical needs at home, but it does not pay for ongoing help with daily living. For that, you need to look at Medicaid, VA benefits, or other programs.
How Does Medicaid Help Pay for Home Care?
Medicaid is a joint federal and state program that helps people with low income and limited assets pay for health care. For home care, Medicaid’s HCBS waivers are often the best option.
These waivers allow states to use Medicaid funds to pay for home care services instead of nursing home care. Services can include personal care, homemaker services, respite care, adult day care, and home modifications. Each state decides which services to offer and how much to pay.
To qualify, a person must meet both financial and medical criteria. Financially, they must have income and assets below certain limits. These limits vary by state. Medically, they must need a level of care similar to what a nursing home would provide. A doctor or state assessor makes this determination.
Some states have higher income limits than others. Some states have waiting lists for HCBS waivers. Other states do not have waiting lists but cap the number of people they serve. It is important to apply as soon as you think you may qualify.
There are also Medicaid spend-down programs in some states. If a person’s income exceeds the limit, they can still qualify by spending the excess on medical expenses. This can include home care costs.
Contact your state Medicaid office to learn the income and asset limits for home care in your state. They can also tell you if there is a waiting list and how long it typically is.
What VA Benefits Are Available for Home Care?
The Department of Veterans Affairs provides several benefits that can help pay for home care. These are separate from VA health care and have their own eligibility rules.
Aid and Attendance is a monthly payment added to a VA pension. It is for veterans who need help with daily activities like bathing, dressing, or eating. It can also go to veterans who are bedridden, in a nursing home, or have certain vision problems. The money can be used to pay for home care, assisted living, or adult day care. A surviving spouse may also qualify if they meet the same care needs.
Housebound benefits are another monthly addition to a VA pension. These are for veterans who are substantially confined to their home because of a permanent disability. The care requirement is different from Aid and Attendance. A veteran may qualify for one or the other, but not both.
The VA also offers home health aide services through its standard medical benefits. This provides in-home help with daily activities for veterans enrolled in VA health care. Availability varies by location.
Veteran-Directed Care is a program in some areas that gives veterans a budget to hire their own caregivers. This includes family members in many cases. The veteran decides who provides care and how the money is spent.
To apply for Aid and Attendance or Housebound, you must submit a VA Form 21-2680, Examination for Housebound Status or Permanent Need for Regular Aid and Attendance. A doctor must complete part of this form. The application process can take several months, so it is best to apply early.
How To Get Help For Elderly At Home Care Costs Through Insurance
Private insurance can help with home care costs, but only if the policy specifically covers it. Standard health insurance and Medicare supplement plans do not cover long-term home care.
Long-term care insurance is designed to pay for help with daily activities. Policies typically cover home care, assisted living, and nursing home care. However, coverage details vary widely. Some policies pay a fixed daily amount for home care. Others reimburse specific services like a home health aide or homemaker. Most policies have a waiting period before benefits begin, typically 30 to 90 days.
If your loved one has a long-term care policy, review it carefully. Look for the daily benefit amount, the benefit period, and exactly what services are covered. Some policies cover care from family members, but not all do.
Life insurance with a long-term care rider is another option. Some life insurance policies allow you to access the death benefit early to pay for long-term care. This is called a living benefit or accelerated death benefit. The money can be used for home care. Not all policies have this option, and the rules vary.
Reverse mortgages are not insurance, but they can free up cash to pay for home care. A reverse mortgage allows a homeowner age 62 or older to borrow against their home equity. The loan is repaid when the homeowner moves out or passes away. The money can be used for any purpose, including home care. This is a serious financial decision and should not be taken lightly.
Before buying any new insurance product to cover future home care, compare costs and benefits carefully. A good place to start is your state’s insurance department or a certified financial planner.
What Local Resources and Discounts Can Help?
Local programs and community organizations often provide home care help at reduced cost or even free. These resources are less known but can make a real difference.
Area Agencies on Aging (AAAs) are your single best starting point. They exist in every community and provide information, referrals, and direct services. An AAA can tell you what programs are available in your county, help you apply for benefits, and connect you with local providers. Some AAAs offer case management, which means a professional helps coordinate your loved one’s care.
Senior centers and faith-based organizations may offer volunteer-based services like friendly visits, phone check-ins, and transportation. These are not a substitute for paid care, but they can supplement it and reduce the overall burden.
Adult day care centers provide daytime supervision and activities for older adults. Some centers charge on a sliding scale based on income. Medicaid may cover adult day care for those enrolled in HCBS waivers.
Nonprofit organizations like the Alzheimer’s Association, the National Council on Aging, and local religious charities offer caregiver support and sometimes direct financial help. The availability of financial assistance varies by location and funding.
Some utility companies and pharmacies offer discount programs for low-income older adults. An extra dollar saved on bills is a dollar that can go toward care.
The key is to ask. Call your local AAA and say, “My elderly parent needs help at home. What programs can help us pay for that?” They are trained to answer that exact question.
How To Plan Ahead for Home Care Costs
Planning ahead can prevent a financial crisis later. Even if care is not needed now, knowing the options gives you time to prepare.
Understand the costs in your area. Home care aide services vary by region. The national median hourly rate for a home care aide is around $27 per hour as of 2024. Actual costs may be higher or lower depending on where you live. Call local agencies to get quotes.
Check eligibility early for Medicaid and VA benefits. The application processes can take months. If you wait until care is urgently needed, the delay can be stressful and expensive. Apply as soon as you know the person may need help.
Consider a personal care agreement if a family member will provide care. This is a written contract between the person needing care and the caregiver. It specifies what services the caregiver will provide and how much they will be paid. A personal care agreement can help make payments legitimate and may be required by Medicaid if a family caregiver wants to be paid through a waiver program.
Talk to a professional who specializes in elder law or aging care. An elder law attorney can help with Medicaid planning, VA applications, and legal documents like power of attorney and advance directives. A certified financial planner can help budget for future care costs.
The earlier you start, the more options you will have. Even a single call to your local AAA can put you on the right path.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I get paid to care for my elderly parent at home?
Yes, in some situations. Medicaid’s HCBS waivers and VA Veteran-Directed Care programs may allow payment to family caregivers. Not all states or programs allow this, so check with your local AAA or state Medicaid office.
Does Medicare cover 24-hour in-home care?
No. Medicare does not cover 24-hour home care or full-time custodial care. It only covers part-time, intermittent skilled home health care for people who are homebound and need skilled nursing or therapy.
What is the income limit for Medicaid home care?
Income limits vary by state. Most states set the limit around 300% of the federal benefit rate, which is roughly $2,829 per month as of 2024. Assets are also counted. Check with your state Medicaid office for exact numbers.
How long does it take to get approved for VA Aid and Attendance?
The application process typically takes three to six months, but it can take longer if the application is incomplete. Apply as early as possible and have a doctor complete the required medical form carefully.

