by Dinny Evans | Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” When allowing outside sources to control your feelings and emotions, you become the victim. Allowing yourself to become the victim is a problem that Radical Forgiveness (RF), a tool used by an RF coach, addresses. Affirmations such as, “everything is perfect exactly as it is” will not lead to forgiveness. Changes must be made and steps must be taken within yourself. These tools … [Read more...]
Radical Forgiveness At Work
Written by Dinny Evans As we head out the door to work each day, how often does it occur to us that we are taking our entire self with us – our private as well as our professional self? The weekends and our off time have been packed with personal activities and chores. Sometimes those personal activities involve a sports activity, cleaning the house, going on the monthly trip to Costco and getting caught up with bill paying. The question that arises is how easy is it to flip a switch when … [Read more...]
Radical Forgiveness
Breaking Free – Forgiving Your Parents Written by Dinny Evans Nothing keeps us stuck in our lives as much as an unhealed childhood wound. Such wounds can range from severe physical or sexual abuse, to that of simply feeling unloved, abandoned or unappreciated by one’s parents. If left unhealed, these wounds become the touchstones for our sense of who we are, beliefs about what our worth is, what we deserve and how successful we will be in our lives. They affect every aspect of our lives … [Read more...]
Radical Forgiveness… How It Works
By Colin Tipping Ordinary forgiveness is ‘letting bygones be bygones’. A certain willingness to forgive is implied but the belief something wrong happened is never questioned. “You did that to me, but I’ll let you off the hook and forgive you.” Research based at Seattle University, WA showed that ordinary forgiveness: (a) is universally difficult. (b) takes a long time - typically years. (Success was defined as finally feeling peaceful about the situation.) (c) The more people … [Read more...]
Radical Forgiveness & Health
Who Needs Radical Health? Anyone who wants optimal health and is open to the idea that mind, body and spirit are all one, and that Radical Forgiveness is one of the keys to achieving balance between all three. Radical Health empowers us to be all that we can be in mind, body and spirit and enables us to take responsibility for our health. One of the ways we can keep ourselves healthy in mind, body and spirit is by making sure we are free of repressed toxic emotions. There is research … [Read more...]
An Expert’s Experience: Radical Forgiveness
A Complementary Treatment for Cancer Written by Colin C. Tipping | Part One- When I suggest emotional/spiritual healing to people with cancer, they almost always misunderstand me. They hear it as emotional support. They think I either just want to comfort them, or show them how to have a more positive attitude. They don’t get that something like forgiveness might be the key to their getting well. I see their eyes glaze over when I go on to say that emotional toxicity is most likely the … [Read more...]
